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This phrase can be interpreted to mean a host of different experiences which can include anorgasmia, erectile dysfunction, lack of interest in sex, sexual aversion and sexual anorexia. Equally, depression, medication, stress, children, long-term relationships and life changes can all...
Why the inverted commas? Because as a therapist, I am one of a growing school of theory that does not believe in the concept of sex addiction, but sees sexual compulsion and shame as the expression of deeper unhappiness. I...
The Addictive Personality is an aspect of ourselves that demands constant attention. It is a slippery disease and can manifest in many different ways, from drug and alcohol addictions, also known as “substance addictions” through to food, sex, pornography and...
There are many schools of thought about the causes of addiction. Is it nature? Perhaps nurture? Or maybe just plain old opportunity…… Most of my experience says that it is trauma based, the roots lie in our attachments, early bonding...
The Internet is a monstrous beast. Options are huge, information is open to all, the routes through are random and at times, dangerous. Things can spiral out of control very fast on the internet. The isolation and lack of intimacy...
Maintaining a long-term relationship can be a series of trials and tribulations. It can also be smooth as silk until a crisis occurs. Crises can be relentless, some of us are drawn to drama, or they can come totally out...
There are different versions of Sexual Aversion which can include Loss of Desire, Anorgasmia, Sexual Pain Disorders, and Sexual Anorexia. Each of the links above will take you to a page or a questionnaire to help you to better...
What are Sexual Pain Disorders?  Define. Dyspareunia, derived from the Greek dyspareunos, or “unhappily married as bedfellows”, is common amongst women, specifically refers to a current pattern of genital pain that occurs before, during or after coitus.  Female Sexual Dysfunction, Vulval...
Here is a word that can be highly inflammatory for some and very important for others. There are swathes of judgement around kink and also garlands of shame. Do you share your fetish? Does it make you feel guilty? Does...
This is the text of the talk I gave at the "Let's talk about gay sex & drugs" hosted by Pat Cash & David Stuart with the 56 Dean St Clinic at Manbar on 13. 05. 14 Basically: Use the hashtags to create a...
For some, this word brings relief, an end to suffering, a respite from behaviours that are causing distress. A break from pressure from others to behave sexually or it can give us a respite from our own compulsion. For others...
This page is made up of a series of tables, definitions and questionnaire that will help you to look at your behaviour and perhaps to make some sense of what has been going on for you. The list includes Am...

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